Should have just kept texting her
One of the only good things about texting, i think, is how it makes phone conversations offer the chance for a deeper connection. I have realized this after my feeling completely changing for some one. First, i was flabbergasted at how idiotic she was. In turn, i just wanted one thing so i just decided to text her, which is what i do with most people. It is after her wanting to talk that i realized i was wrong and in turn let my guard down. Though i in the end did ended up letting my guard down too much and being “hurt”, for lack of a better word, i did realize how talking on the phone for people who usually text can be an extremely significant gesture. Hearing someone’s voice, their emotion, their sarcasm, their sincerity helps you to see them in a newer light. This of course being if you do not have long conversations with them face-to-face outside of a class setting, with topics usually reverting to some school related subject. I just had to rant because i was thinking of this today and thought maybe writing it down would help me understand a few things more clearly. What i do know is that now, thanks to the text message, talking to people on the phone is much more pleasurable and forms a deeper connection with said person, if it is indeed a conversation you are having and not just directions to where you are meeting up. Sooo…time to go eat
